The Nerd Talker - How To Talk To Women Even If You Are Super Shy

Are You Afraid Of Talking To Attractive Women?

I was. 

From childhood, I was a very shy and socially awkward. Meeting girls was impossible for me unless they show interest in me too and initiate conversation. I was just an average looking Joe, so even in college, girls rarely initiated conversation with me, unless they wanted something. 

Even then I would mess up things badly.  

I would say the wrong thing at the wrong time. Everyone around me would stare at me silently. And later, I would beat myself up about saying the wrong thing. This went on for years.

I was tired of feeling awkward

I didn't have a social life because I was afraid to meet new people. Till the age of 23, I didn't even go out on a date with anyone. Saying hi to a girl was so hard that it's difficult to explain.

Its most likely that I won't have any topic to talk about with a girl I just met. There were situations where I really liked a girl, but I was not sure what to do. I am afraid that she will not like me or worse, I will make a fool out of myself by saying something dumb. My knees will crumble when I even start to think about talking to someone I am attracted to.

Unlike the “naturals” who always seem to know the right thing to say, when we say something, it comes out completely wrong. Or worse — we just sit there quietly staring at her.

Ugh. I’ve been there. MOST of us have.

The worst part is, we use these singular experiences to write our internal story of WHO we are. Literally, we’ll say, “I’m not a natural. I’m not smooth. I could never talk like [that guy].”

And the more awkward situations we get into, the more we reinforce this belief, leading to a tighter and tighter loop of doom. You’re doing it again. Stop. Why can’t you just act like a normal person?

What can you do?

There are tons of books, courses, and articles about confidence. “How to be confident at work!” “How to stop being shy on dates!”, “How to make everybody at a party love you!” The list goes on and on. The #1 piece of advice in all these materials is: “Just be yourself!”

VOMIT.

That’s like telling people, “Just spend less than you earn!” Yeah, true, but HOW? What about all the details? What do you say? What do you do? What happens if you self-sabotage?

You can find a lot of feel-good attitudes and motivational talks when it comes to getting better at social skills. And they might even work for awhile. You walk a little taller at one event. But then, it doesn’t go well or you have a few missteps along the way.

A week, 3 months, 6 months, a year down the road, you're back to the same old awkward, shameful, self-loathing square one.

But it doesn't have to be that way.

After studying, testing, and improving for years, I identified a few simple beliefs holding me back… and some key insights that completely changed how I talked to women I already knew and women I just met.

Point is, I slowly and painfully crawled out of it — and never had to look back.

I still remember those awkward situations where I couldn't manage to get out a single word.

Where I just embarrassed myself.

It didn’t matter how smart I was or how great I was, I was being rejected before I could let my best qualities shine through.

This is the truth nobody tells you.

It doesn't matter how smart or prepared or accomplished you are — if your first impression bombs. And if you can’t carry a conversation that connects with the woman you are attracted to, you’re forgettable.

In other words, she can't see what's in your head. But she can see your social skills. That’s why your ability to talk to any women is more critical than even most technical skills.

Your social skills are the tip of the spear — one of the first things that women notice about us. They don’t see your education, or how hard you’ve worked, or how funny and nice you are. All they know is how you make them feel in the first 5 seconds of meeting them.

Now, you and I both know that women aren’t rational. They’re not making reasoned decisions based on just the things you say. Like it or not, they’re using our social skills to make split-second decisions about if they like us and trust us — or not.

So it is important to create a lasting impression by what you say and how you say it.

But here’s another truth:

Being awkward is a label we give ourselves.

It's just a label.

That’s like saying, “I’m not strong…I can’t lift weights” without ever setting foot in a gym.

Being “awkward” simply means we haven’t practiced improving our skills at talking to anyone, and connecting with everyone.

You can talk to anybody without anxiety or nervousness or fear. In fact, you can get pretty damn good at it.

I know, because I did exactly that.

What if you could talk to any woman, anytime and create an instant connection?

Breaking the ice is nerve wracking. You see this hot girl at a party and want to desperately talk to her. But a small voice inside your head stops you from approaching her.

If these thoughts stop you from approaching her, then its time to make a change. 

Have you ever seen a child meet someone? They walk right up and say “hi!” Why? Because they haven’t been rejected, humiliated, and embarrassed. They don’t have walls up yet.

You ARE a natural — you’re natural at being curious, friendly, and most importantly, yourself. It was only years later that society chipped away at our natural confidence and made us worry about saying the wrong thing. I won’t let you label yourself “awkward” or “shy.”

When I started working on my social skills, I set a goal: I wanted to be able to talk to any women, anywhere, anytime.

Since then, I’ve talked to thousands of women including supermodels. I can’t remember the last time I felt nervous to talk to someone. The best part is, I’ll have this skill forever.

And now I want to teach you how to do it, too, because your ability to connect with the people around you is the greatest single competitive advantage I can give you.

I’ve learned and systematically tested it with myself. And now I want to show you how.

Of course, you've probably read a few books on anxiety and how to be more confident in conversations.

Maybe watched some videos on YouTube or listened to a few podcasts.

Maybe you've even bought programs meant to help you build confidence at work, in dating, or in any other area of your life.

Maybe you've even gone to a counselor or a therapist for help.

And yet — here you are — still not as confident and calm in conversation as you'd like to be.

You're obviously still in search of a solution.

And I'm so confident that THIS is your solution, I'm actually going to let you try it out for yourself and start getting results for the next 30 days, at zero risk or obligation on your part.

That may be getting ahead of myself though — let me walk you through what this course is.

Nerd Talker goes much deeper than simply “work conversations” or “pickup game.”

This course gives you the building blocks to talk to any women, anywhere, at any time… whether it’s one-on-one or in a group setting, whether you're trying to get a date or build a friendship. These skills are universally applicable during the most pivotal moments of our lives.

And unlike other skim-the-surface material, we’ve gone deep into the psychology of conversational skills at the highest levels.

We won't give you cheesy lines to blurt out in different situations. Instead, we'll show you how the best test and perfect a conversational style that's all their own — and how you can, too.

I will give you a WARNING though. This course is not for everyone.

Nerd Talker is NOT for you if…

• You’re looking for magic words or a quick fix to instantly transform your social skills

• You’re looking to mislead or deceive people so they “like” you

• You're looking to read material but not implement it. Please go away

• You can't commit at least 1-2 hours a week improving your social skills and conversations

Nerd Talker IS for you if…

• You're open to admitting that the way you've acted in the past may need to change if you want to achieve higher levels of success and happiness

• You’re willing to try and willing to fail a few times before you find your own authentic conversation style

• You want to stop blindly trying the "conventional advice" about social interactions and start emulating the most compelling people

• You feel like you've gotten as far as you can on your own and are ready for an extra push to take you the rest of the way to success

• You're willing to invest at least 10 minutes a day on improving your social skills

• You're focused on the long term — and you understand there will always be ups-and-downs, but that you can make HUGE gains by acting smarter

• You’ve tried a bunch of different approaches to becoming more comfortable and natural in important conversations — and haven’t found one that works for YOU yet!

In your first 30 days, you’ll learn…

I've distilled the most powerful conversational lessons, tips, strategies, scripts, and exercises into a fast, step-by-step system. Most "naturals" spend YEARS learning this material by trial and error, thousands of conversations, and painfully awkward encounters. We’ll save you the time and hassle.

In this course, I will teach you how to build the courage and confidence of talking to women.Go from ZERO TO HERO in just 4 weeks.

Learn how to approach and engage women like a natural even if you are super shy and never talked to a woman in your life.

• How to overcome shyness
  
• How to get rid of your fear of talking to women
  
• How to overcome one of the biggest fears that all men have in life
  

• How to end approach anxiety for good

• How to build confidence to talk to women
  
• How to stop yourself from getting cold feet
  
• How to read a women like a book
  
• How to approach any attractive women like a natural
  
• How to get rid of the fear of rejection
• How to approach women without having to remember cheesy pickup lines
  
• How to start a conversation that will lead to something more.
  
• How to talk to your crush and make them fall for you
  
• What to talk to a girl you just met
  
• What to talk to women to keep them engaged
  
• How to get past small talk and connect with her
  
• Discover what attracts women
  
• How to get more dates today without coming across as creepy or weird
  
• How to make a lasting impression with any women you meet
  
• How to ask your crush on a date
• How to s no matter what she's doing
  
• How to impress someone without opening your mouth
• How to keep a conversation going without talking much
• How to get her to give you her number

And much much more..

Nerd Talker includes:

• More than 15 videos giving you step by step instructions, conversation frameworks, tested tactics, word-for-word scripts, scenario plans, and field challenges to practice in real life — all on video, all fully transcribed, all downloadable in audio/video formats
• Weekly tasks to do to build your confidence and get over your social anxiety. 
  

• Printable Worksheets to help you track your progress every week and see the improvement you are making.
  
• Conversational scripts to accompany the video lessons. Use these scripts to kickstart a conversation and keep it going — authentically and naturally
• Body-language analysis so you become 10X more interesting — without changing a word.
  

So what are you waiting for? Scroll up and click 'I want This'.

If you have any questions or concerns about the course, email us. We're happy to help